For younger men
Older Women Seeking Younger Men
Confident women in their late thirties and forties who want to meet a younger man like you.
- Free to join
- 18+ only
If you are a younger man who has always been drawn to older women, you are in good company. On Local Cougars, most of our women members are between 35 and 44, and three quarters of the men are under 35. Every woman here joined because she wants to meet younger men, so the question you would be nervous to ask in a bar has already been answered.
Why younger men love dating older women
Men on Local Cougars say the same things. Older women know what they want and say so. They have their own lives, their own money and their own friends, so there are fewer games and less drama. They are confident in bed and out of it. And they are often more fun: a woman of 42 who has stopped worrying what people think is excellent company on a night out. If that sounds like your type, you are not unusual. You are exactly who our women are looking for.
The women you will meet
More than 600 women have joined, from Australia and South Africa to the USA and the UK. Most are 35 to 44, and some are older, in their late forties and fifties. Some want something casual, some a regular date, some a relationship; their profiles say which.
How to get her attention
Use a clear, recent photo and write a few honest lines about yourself. Verify your ID for free and a badge will show on your profile. Then message women whose profiles interest you, mention something she has written, and suggest a simple first date when the time is right. Do not open with her age or anything explicit. Our guide on how to meet older women covers the detail, and our first date ideas help with what comes next.
Set the age range you really want
Your daily matches follow the ages you set. If you are 27 and want women from 38 to 50, say so, and that is who you will see. Women do the same in reverse, so you are shown to women who want a man your age. It saves a lot of wasted messages on both sides.
A word on respect
The women here are not a fantasy category; they are real people with careers, children and plenty of options. Treat them as you would any woman you fancied: with interest, honesty and good manners. The men who do well on Local Cougars are the ones who remember that.
Older Women Seeking Younger Men: your questions
Do older women want younger men?
On Local Cougars they do. Every woman here joined to meet younger men, and most of our women are 35 to 44.
Where do the women live?
In four countries. Most of our women members live in the UK and the USA, and more are in South Africa and Australia.
Can I choose the age range I see?
Yes. Set the ages you want and your daily matches follow them.
Is it free for men?
Joining is free for everyone, and free accounts can send a number of messages each day.